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The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017get the look...ON HER Dress, $958, Truly Zac Posen, DavidsBridal.com; earrings, $3,500, EffyJewelry.com; shoes, Giuseppe Zanotti, courtesy of Albright Fashion LibraryON HIM Suit, $595, socks, $10, Tommy Hilfiger, TommyHilfiger.com; shirt, stylist’s own; tie, $160, Olch.com; wedding band, $1,250, CrownRing.com; shoes, $750, Burberry.comON HER Dress, $4,500, Christian Siriano, KleinfeldBridal.com; engagement ring, $895, EffyJewelry.com; earrings, price upon request, NewYorkVintage.comON HER Top and pants, $4,150, Rosa Clará at L’Amour Bridal, LAmourBridalMI.com (Novi); veil, $120, TwigsandHoney.com; engagement ring, $920, MarsJewelry.com; co*cktail ring, $98, KateSpade.com; earrings, $425, OscardelaRenta.com; shoes, Manolo Blahnik, courtesy of Albright Fashion Librarybehind the scenesCAROUSEL CREWJane’s Carousel, with its vibrant colors and whimsical details, felt like the perfect backdrop for our celebratory fashion shoot in this issue. Here, our whole team (including The Knot cofounder Carley Roney) strikes a group pose in front of…1 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017ask carleyQ My wedding band and engagement ring are both platinum, but I’m thinking about wearing gold jewelry for my wedding. Will that work?A You can absolutely mix metals on your wedding day. Your engagement ring and wedding band might be your most meaningful (and asked about) jewelry, but that doesn’t mean they have to stand alone or dictate your entire look. For a little fashion inspiration, let the color and details of your gown point you toward which baubles will work best for your wedding. Gold usually pairs beautifully with creamier ivory fabrics, while silver typically complements brighter whites.RUDE REMARKSQ A friend of ours keeps making comments about our wedding budget, wondering aloud how we’re paying for it—in front of other people. How can we deal with these types of…6 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 20177 super-chic shoes1 POSH PUMPSStatement-making stones turn these slingbacks into an extraordinary accessory for your walk down the aisle.2 CRYSTAL KICKSGlam embellishments lend a dramatic touch to strappy, silver heels.3 PEEP SHOWLook chic from head to toe in a pair of peep-toe booties that are sure to turn heads.4 PURR-FECT PAIRPut your best foot forward by slipping into comfortable, eye-catching flats.5 STEP UPWear your heart on your shoe with whimsical pumps worthy of any romantic celebration.6 A CUT ABOVETrendy, laser-cut detailing lends just the right amount of refined edge to classic, nude heels.7 GO FOR THE GOLDDance the night away in a pair of gilded sneakers you’ll wear well beyond your wedding day.k See more fashion inspiration at TheKnot.com/fashion…1 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 20178 fetching rural farmshidden vineyard wedding barn6337 Snyder Road, Berrien Springs; (269) 408-6082; WeddingBarnMI.comAs one of the longest continually operating farms in the area, this barn is a sight to see, with a 10-acre vineyard and annual harvest of honey and maple syrup. Exchange vows in the recently renovated 19th-century barn or on the venue’s 1,000-square-foot deck, which overlooks a nearby pond and wildflower meadow. While the maximum guest capacity varies by the season (150 in May and October, and 200 for warmer months), the pastoral views are stunning year-round.frutig farms8040 Scio Church Road, Ann Arbor; (734) 355-3543; FrutigFarms.comThe most difficult part of planning a wedding at Frutig Farms is deciding which of its two distinctive venues you like best. Misty Farm, a 2,400-square-foot structure, is situated on 16 tranquil acres that overlook…4 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017advice from a wedding plannerwhat’s the key to finding the perfect venue?Take the time to think about the environment you feel most comfortable in. Where would you choose to dine together for a special occasion: a five-star restaurant or that new Korean barbecue pop-up? Try to find a space where the experience you’re hoping to create aligns with the venue’s mission.how can you plan a wedding on a tight budget?Lower your guest count. The difference between a 150-person event and a 200-person wedding is huge in terms of how it affects your overall budget. Look at the guest list and ask yourself, “Would I take this person to a several hundred dollar meal?” If you wouldn’t, then it’s time to reevaluate.is planning a wedding in less than six months really doable?Absolutely—we’ve produced some of…2 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017advice from a bespoke clothierlet’s start with the basics—what is bespoke?Essentially, a bespoke suit is created for a client using an original pattern that’s unique to their measurements. The suit is designed just for them and no one else, therefore it fits exactly as it should.so how does a bespoke suit compare with one that’s rented?Off-the-rack suits are made for a nonexistent person, which can lead to problems for most grooms. The lapels can bow out or the shoulders can be too big, which makes it look like you’re wearing your dad’s suit. Not only is a bespoke suit going to fit better than a rental, many grooms prefer bespoke since they can wear it again.but aren’t custom suits pricier than the rented variety?Many different variables come into play when determining the price, including…3 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017brian & paulTHEIR STORYGROOM Brian Vargo (right), 33, an engineer GROOM Paul Kittinger, 33, an attorney HOW THEY MET Through mutual friends WEDDING STYLE A sophisticated color palette of navy, silver and sage kept their wedding simple and chic without detracting from Brian and Paul’s verdant venue. —RSDespite the abundance of snow outside, the conservatory’s lush interior lent a tropical quality to Brian and Paul’s midwinter wedding. “With it being the off-season, we had our pick of local wedding vendors, and the vast majority of our guests were available,” Paul says.BRIAN & PAUL’S WEDDING INGREDIENTSCEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE Planterra Conservatory, West Bloomfield PHOTOGRAPHY Marek Dziekonski/Dziekonski Photography CONSULTANT & FLOWERS Planterra Events ATTIRE Brian: Calvin Klein;
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017stephanie & chuckTHEIR STORYBRIDE Stephanie Jablonski, 30, a kindergarten teacher GROOM Chuck Eiler, 40, an art director HOW THEY MET While vacationing in Clearwater Beach, Florida WEDDING STYLE As a nod to their ceremony’s vineyard venue, Stephanie and Chuck decked out the rustic setting using wine-inspired colors of champagne, blush and garnet. —RS“We traveled to Traverse City for our first weekend getaway and fell in love with Black Star Farms and each other,” Stephanie says of returning to the vineyard to say “I do.” Postceremony, the newlyweds hosted a champagne mixer for guests at the back of the barn.STEPHANIE & CHUCK’S WEDDING INGREDIENTSCEREMONY SITE Black Star Farms, Suttons Bay RECEPTION SITE Visions at CenterPointe, Traverse City PHOTOGRAPHY Tamara Gruner Photography CONSULTANTS Stephanie Wiitala/Black Star Farms; Joanne Sika/Visions at CenterPointe FLOWERS Ketzler’s Florist…1 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017PAPER TRAILSdesertGetting hitched in the Southwest? Choose a symbol or motif that suits, like this playful cactus illustration. A mix of graphic and elegant typography elevates the suite, making it perfect for any formality, from hacienda to casual ranch party. Cacti wedding invitations, $234 for 100, Cass Loh, Minted.comgardenTying the knot in a field of flowers? Incorporate some flora into your wedding paper. (Bonus points for adding the blooms to your bouquet too.) A monochromatic palette lends subtle sophistication to this illustrated design while a portrait (aka the new monogram) gives it bespoke personalization. Matching inserts coordinate the whole suite. Frankie collection invitations and envelopes, $582 for 100, ColorMeCarla.comcityCelebrating in the big city? Give guests a sneak peek of the party spot and generate excitement with a custom watercolor invitation backer—…2 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017the real deal on wedding cakesdo I have to have a wedding cake?Technically no, but we think the tradition is definitely worth keeping. If you decide to forgo a cake, offer your guests some other kind of sweet treat, be it a plated dessert or passed chocolates. If you’re skipping the cake solely to save money, consider scaling back instead. Keep your add-ons and decoration requests simple— the less ornate the design, the less time-consuming (and costly) to make. Avoid exotic fillings, such as fresh guava, and instead order classic flavors that can easily be sourced. If you still need to come down on price, ask your baker about having two cakes. Order a small one- or a two-tier confection you can cut, then supplement with a sheet cake in the kitchen.is buttercream less expensive…6 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017too pretty to eat (well, almost)Couples take note: Edible favors never (okay, rarely) get left behind. And while favors aren’t required, they’re a nice way to show your guests you appreciate their support and attendance. And if they traveled to celebrate, an edible token means instant gratification— no packing something extra in the suitcase for the trek home. Just like your invitation sets the stage for your wedding, your favors leave a lasting impression, so pick something fun that speaks to your wedding theme, the locale or your personality as a couple. Are you two always on the hunt for the best macarons? Or maybe you’re popcorn gurus or cookie connoisseurs? Treat your guests to an indulgence you both love. Whether you’re after something sweet, foodie-approved or ridiculously Instagrammable, we’ve got you covered with nine…3 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017advice from a wedding plannerwhat’s the key to finding the perfect venue? Take the time to think about the environment you feel most comfortable in. Where would you choose to dine together for a special occasion: a five-star restaurant or that new Korean barbecue pop-up? Try to find a space where the experience you’re hoping to create aligns with the venue’s mission. how can you plan a wedding on a tight budget? Lower your guest count. The difference between a 150-person event and a 200-person wedding is huge in terms of how it affects your overall budget. Look at the guest list and ask yourself, “Would I take this person to a several hundred dollar meal?” If you wouldn’t, then it’s time to reevaluate. is planning a wedding in less than six months really…2 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017the well-groomed groomIt’s no secret that many brides follow strict wedding prep before the wedding day—but what about the guys? These days, groom style is about so much more than just a rented tux. From manicuring his facial hair to choosing just the right accessories to complement his perfectly tailored new threads, here are four easy ways to pamper your groom and give his wedding day style a little extra polish.do some manscapingIf he’s considering growing or changing his facial hair before your wedding, make sure he has at least a three-month head start. “It’s better to live with the style for a bit prior to the wedding to make sure this is the look you want to have in your photos,” says Troy Harris, a master barber at The Art of…7 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017savvy spendingAll done establishing your wedding budget? Good for you! Now you’ll spend the next few months allocating and tracking your funds. Here, four tips to make sure your spending is where it should be.get a wedding budget systemPut your accounting skills to the test by deciding on a budgeting system to track all the money going in and out for your wedding day. The easiest way? The Knot Budget Calculator, which estimates how much you should spend on everything from music to mother-in-law gifts, and allows you to track all your payments and their due dates. Otherwise, you can put all your info in an old-fashioned spreadsheet.explore any hidden costsKnowing all of the costs for your wedding up front will guarantee that your budget can actually cover all the details.…3 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017the portrait listthe happy coupleStunning snaps of the two of you should be the priority. Consider doing a “first look,” where you and your fiancé come together before the ceremony to see each other for the first time in your wedding attire. You’ll be less nervous walking down the aisle and won’t miss co*cktail hour.the wedding partyYour loyal friends and family who have stood by you in life— and in wedding planning— should also take center stage in your wedding album. You’ll want shots of you two with the entire bridal party as well as ones with each individual attendant. Some couples get creative with a mix of fun group shots (jumping, goofing around) and more traditional posed compositions.immediate familyYou may be eager to get to the reception, but your mom will…1 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017exceptional extrasFOOD FAVORS“I’m not a big fan of favors because, realistically, I’m never going to use a picture frame with someone else’s initials. But I do love the late-night snacks! They’re a great break from drinking and dancing and usually come from one of the couple’s local favorites that you may never have tried on your own.” —Katie Kortebein, Research Assistant Editorwelcome bags“At a wedding I attended in Napa, there was a welcome bag full of yummy local treats from around the area and a voucher for wine tasting with my plus-one. It even included a free bottle of wine to remember the trip!” —Sarah Love, Associate Photo Editor“My favorite amenity is definitely thePittsburgh tradition of a cookie table,which is an arranged spread of delicious, homemade cookies at the reception.” —Kellee…1 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017let the planning begin!12+ monthsThink about when and where you’d like to have your wedding (the question everyone will ask about 20 minutes after you get engaged).Nail down a budget and go to TheKnot.com/budget. We’ll help you figure out how much you should spend on flowers, stationery and your day-of looks.While you’re in organizational-planning mode, download The Knot Wedding Planner app. It’s a cool way to research local pros, keep your contacts and inspiration board updated, draft your guest list and take it all with you.Research and book ceremony and reception locations. This is your first big decision.Book any pros you just have to have, like a band or wedding planner, especially if you live in a competitive market. Start searching for the dress.Get the ring appraised and then insured ASAP. (Trust us—this…6 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017the real deal on wedding cakesdo I have to have a wedding cake? Technically no, but we think the tradition is definitely worth keeping. If you decide to forgo a cake, offer your guests some other kind of sweet treat, be it a plated dessert or passed chocolates. If you’re skipping the cake solely to save money, consider scaling back instead. Keep your add-ons and decoration requests simple— the less ornate the design, the less time-consuming (and costly) to make. Avoid exotic fillings, such as fresh guava, and instead order classic flavors that can easily be sourced. If you still need to come down on price, ask your baker about having two cakes. Order a small one- or a two-tier confection you can cut, then supplement with a sheet cake in the kitchen. is buttercream…6 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017playing for keepstrue colors Who says you have to stick to conventional hues for your wedding? A dreamy mauve gown and crisp khaki suit are fresh and totally on trend. Dress, $6,000, Hayley Paige at Bridal Couture of Birmingham, BridalCoutureMI.com (Birmingham), Mimi’s Bridal Boutique, MimisBridalBoutique.com (Ann Arbor), Bianka Bridal, BiankaBridal.com (Grand Rapids); engagement ring, $995, EffyJewelry.com; earrings, $345, NaeemKhan.com ON HIM Suit, $600, Bar III, Macys.com; shirt, stylist’s own; bow tie, $110, Olch.com; pocket square, $16, SprezzaBox.com; socks, $28, HappySocks.com; shoes, $1,195, ChristianLouboutin.com>> fancy pants A sleek pantsuit with a flouncy top is the best of both worlds: It’s fashion forward but still feels bridal. Add a veil for a look that’s all your own. Pantsuit, $4,150, Rosa Clará at L’Amour Bridal, LAmourBridalMI.com (Novi); veil, $120, TwigsandHoney.com; engagement ring, $920, MarsJewelry.com; earrings,…2 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017styling your smallest attendantsfor flower girls THE SKINNY The parents traditionally pay for the flower girl’s attire, so unless you plan on making a gift of it, be up front about this cost when you ask to include her in your wedding day. THE FORMALITY There are two schools of thought when it comes to dressing the flower girl: She should match the bride, or she should match the bridesmaids. Another option is to put her in a white dress with an accent or sash that matches the bridesmaid dress color. THE STYLE No matter what your wedding style, flower girl dresses nearly always have a fuller skirt and are tea or floor length. THE ACCESSORIES Keep it simple. A basket of petals or pomander is probably plenty for her to handle. Consider…2 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017making the gradeWhen you begin researching the perfect engagement ring (and for that secret Pinterest board, of course) the word “overwhelming” may come to mind. Before you even make the purchase, a number of factors, from budget to style, have to be considered. And while a lot of the old rules no longer apply when choosing an engagement ring—like having to buy one with a more traditional setting—there are some guidelines you should always keep in mind when shopping for a diamond. If you’re thinking of a buying a white diamond, the four Cs—cut, color, clarity and carat—are important factors to consider before settling on a ring. Editor’s note: No standardized quality grading system exists for colored gemstones, so if you’re on the hunt for a colorful center stone, these rules don’t…3 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017vineyard vowsDelicious wine, lush green leaves and a rustic setting— wineries make for unforgettable wedding venues, so what’s not to love when planning a vineyard wedding? There’s more to the process that you have to plan for: Grapes aren’t always on the vines for pretty photos, and pastoral vineyards don’t always show up on even the most high-tech GPS devices. That’s why we consulted Madeleine McQuarrie, event planner at Chateau St. Jean winery in Sonoma, California, who gave us the lowdown on all of the logistical ins and outs you might not have considered. Cheers! check the local sound-ordinance rules Usually, rural counties (in which most wineries reside) are strict with their sound ordinances—in some cases, music must be turned off by 10 or 11 p.m. Just be sure to doublecheck…6 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017the knot.com/michiganfacebook.com/theknotpinterest.com/theknot@theknot@theknot@theknotGO LOCALconnect with pros and find tipsGather your dream team of wedding pros with the help of our newly launched Ultimate Wedding Guides at TheKnot.com/stateguides. Your Michigan guide has everything you need to know about saying “I do,” from getting your marriage license to seasonal tips. Then, connect with planners, florists, photographers and more by searching by region and price in our Marketplace.Here are some of our Instagram favorites.♥ 7,795 LIKESphoto by @elisabricker♥ 7,509 LIKESphoto by @karenadixonREAL WEDDINGSget inspiredBrowse the top weddings from across America as part of our 50 Weddings, 50 States roundup. Our pick for the Great Lakes State, Katlyn and Clayton, infused their nuptials with plenty of Michigan flair, stunning lakeside landscapes and personalized details. It’s the ultimate local inspiration.“Our venue incorporated our love of lakes and…1 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017get the look...ON HER Dress, $958, Truly Zac Posen, DavidsBridal.com; earrings, $3,500, EffyJewelry.com; shoes, Giuseppe Zanotti, courtesy of Albright Fashion Library ON HIM Suit, $595, socks, $10, Tommy Hilfiger, TommyHilfiger.com; shirt, stylist’s own; tie, $160, Olch.com; wedding band, $1,250, CrownRing.com; shoes, $750, Burberry.com ON HER Dress, $4,500, Christian Siriano, KleinfeldBridal.com; engagement ring, $895, EffyJewelry.com; earrings, price upon request, NewYorkVintage.com ON HER Top and pants, $4,150, Rosa Clará at L’Amour Bridal, LAmourBridalMI.com (Novi); veil, $120, TwigsandHoney.com; engagement ring, $920, MarsJewelry.com; co*cktail ring, $98, KateSpade.com; earrings, $425, OscardelaRenta.com; shoes, Manolo Blahnik, courtesy of Albright Fashion Library behind the scenes CAROUSEL CREW Jane’s Carousel, with its vibrant colors and whimsical details, felt like the perfect backdrop for our celebratory fashion shoot in this issue. Here, our whole team (including The Knot cofounder Carley Roney) strikes…1 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017the knot.com/michiganfacebook.com/theknot pinterest.com/theknot @theknot @theknot @theknot GO LOCAL connect with pros and find tips Gather your dream team of wedding pros with the help of our newly launched Ultimate Wedding Guides at TheKnot.com/stateguides. Your Michigan guide has everything you need to know about saying “I do,” from getting your marriage license to seasonal tips. Then, connect with planners, florists, photographers and more by searching by region and price in our Marketplace. Here are some of our Instagram favorites. ♥ 7,795 LIKES photo by @elisabricker ♥ 7,509 LIKES photo by @karenadixon REAL WEDDINGS get inspired Browse the top weddings from across America as part of our 50 Weddings, 50 States roundup. Our pick for the Great Lakes State, Katlyn and Clayton, infused their nuptials with plenty of Michigan flair, stunning lakeside landscapes…1 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017advice from a chefwhat are the biggest mistakes you see couples making with their menus?Not trusting the chef and trying to create a menu to please guests without first considering your own personal preferences. Focus on yourselves and your dining experience, then let your caterer worry about pleasing everyone else.how can couples personalize their menu?Share food memories and family stories from holidays and vacations to allow the chef to create personalized options based on your own experiences. I also really enjoy when couples give us a family recipe so we can learn and share together. It means a lot that they trust me with executing a dish that’s really special to them.what’s the one catering trend you wish would go away?Hot buffets—I hate seeing precooked food slowly deteriorating in quality as the line…2 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017wine + peachk Find your wedding palette at TheKnot.com/wedding-colors…1 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 20177 super-chic shoes1 POSH PUMPS Statement-making stones turn these slingbacks into an extraordinary accessory for your walk down the aisle. 2 CRYSTAL KICKS Glam embellishments lend a dramatic touch to strappy, silver heels. 3 PEEP SHOW Look chic from head to toe in a pair of peep-toe booties that are sure to turn heads. 4 PURR-FECT PAIR Put your best foot forward by slipping into comfortable, eye-catching flats. 5 STEP UP Wear your heart on your shoe with whimsical pumps worthy of any romantic celebration. 6 A CUT ABOVE Trendy, laser-cut detailing lends just the right amount of refined edge to classic, nude heels. 7 GO FOR THE GOLD Dance the night away in a pair of gilded sneakers you’ll wear well beyond your wedding day. k See more fashion inspiration at…1 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 20179 charming toppers1 TOP THAT Put it in writing with a custom topper featuring your favorite quote. 2 PRETTY PAPER Personalized paper dolls add flair to any cake. 3 SEEING STARS Star Wars fanatics will obsess over these whimsical wood characters. 4 BIRDS OF A FEATHER Show off your fun side with paper plumes. 5 TOY STORY LEGO figurines make for a throwback detail your guests will appreciate. 6 PLAYFUL PANDAS Dig into a sweet treat topped with pink peonies and cheeky pandas. 7 SWEET TALK Channel your inner Ross and Rachel with this Friends-inspired topper. 8 SUPERHERO CHIC Pay homage to your favorite fictional hero with a masked figure. 9 BEAR WITH ME The only thing missing from this bear trio is Goldilocks herself. k Find more sweet inspiration at TheKnot.com/cakes…1 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 20178 fetching rural farmshidden vineyard wedding barn 6337 Snyder Road, Berrien Springs; (269) 408-6082; WeddingBarnMI.com As one of the longest continually operating farms in the area, this barn is a sight to see, with a 10-acre vineyard and annual harvest of honey and maple syrup. Exchange vows in the recently renovated 19th-century barn or on the venue’s 1,000-square-foot deck, which overlooks a nearby pond and wildflower meadow. While the maximum guest capacity varies by the season (150 in May and October, and 200 for warmer months), the pastoral views are stunning year-round. frutig farms 8040 Scio Church Road, Ann Arbor; (734) 355-3543; FrutigFarms.com The most difficult part of planning a wedding at Frutig Farms is deciding which of its two distinctive venues you like best. Misty Farm, a 2,400-square-foot structure, is situated on…3 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017playing for keepstrue colorsWho says you have to stick to conventional hues for your wedding? A dreamy mauve gown and crisp khaki suit are fresh and totally on trend. Dress, $6,000, Hayley Paige at Bridal Couture of Birmingham, BridalCoutureMI.com (Birmingham), Mimi’s Bridal Boutique, MimisBridalBoutique.com (Ann Arbor), Bianka Bridal, BiankaBridal.com (Grand Rapids); engagement ring, $995, EffyJewelry.com; earrings, $345, NaeemKhan.com ON HIM Suit, $600, Bar III, Macys.com; shirt, stylist’s own; bow tie, $110, Olch.com; pocket square, $16, SprezzaBox.com; socks, $28, HappySocks.com; shoes, $1,195, ChristianLouboutin.com>>fancy pantsA sleek pantsuit with a flouncy top is the best of both worlds: It’s fashion forward but still feels bridal. Add a veil for a look that’s all your own. Pantsuit, $4,150, Rosa Clará at L’Amour Bridal, LAmourBridalMI.com (Novi); veil, $120, TwigsandHoney.com; engagement ring, $920, MarsJewelry.com; earrings, $425, OscardelaRenta.com; shoes,…2 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017maid for each otherChances are, you have a couple of old bridesmaid dresses collecting dust in your own closet. And now that it’s your turn to pick the dress, you might be feeling the pressure to find a style that’s both budget friendly and figure flattering for all of your attendants. Think that’s impossible? We promise—it’s actually totally doable. Read up on how to find dresses that won’t cost a fortune but will look gorgeous on all your girls.let them choose the dressJust hear us out on this one: Letting each bridesmaid choose her own dress proves you want everyone to look their best and shows you trust in their fashion sense. The trick to pulling off the mismatched trend is setting color and fabric guidelines so your whole party still looks cohesive.…4 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017bridesmaid reprievebouquetsYou’re expected to pay for your attendants’ personal flowers, which is something to consider when you’re thinking about how many bridesmaids you want. The bridesmaid bouquets (and the groomsmen boutonnieres) are factored into the floral budget along with the bride’s bouquet, centerpieces and other various décor.transportationWhile you don’t have to order a car service to pick up each and every one of your bridesmaids, you should make sure they have a ride to the wedding and from the ceremony to the reception, especially if your two venues are far apart or in an unfamiliar area (say, you’re having a destination wedding). You can hire a bus or limo to pick them up from a set location, or you can ask a few local guests to give the out-of-towners a lift.bridesmaid…1 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017making the gradeWhen you begin researching the perfect engagement ring (and for that secret Pinterest board, of course) the word “overwhelming” may come to mind. Before you even make the purchase, a number of factors, from budget to style, have to be considered. And while a lot of the old rules no longer apply when choosing an engagement ring—like having to buy one with a more traditional setting—there are some guidelines you should always keep in mind when shopping for a diamond. If you’re thinking of a buying a white diamond, the four Cs—cut, color, clarity and carat—are important factors to consider before settling on a ring. Editor’s note: No standardized quality grading system exists for colored gemstones, so if you’re on the hunt for a colorful center stone, these rules don’t…3 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017eat, drink and be marriedNo matter how you’re celebrating, an amazing meal is central to your wedding reception. But before you choose the menu, you need to know which meal you’re serving. Your options are nearly endless—from a formal, seated dinner or a festive brunch buffet to nothing but a fivetier fondant couture cake.brunchBrunch can be served buffet style or as a seated meal (or you could even do a combo). The other alternative is a co*cktail brunch, where guests enjoy passed hors d’oeuvres (like scrambled-egg tartlets and mini French toast sticks) and co*cktails (such as mimosas, Bellinis and Bloody Marys) as they mingle among a mix of lounge furniture and tables.THE PROS• Your liquor costs will be lower than they’d be for an evening affair, and often, site-rental fees are less expensive during…5 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017raise your glassvariety is the spice of lifeDon’t feel like you have to stick with the most familiar types of wine. “You can have a large variety of wines to choose from, so you can wow your guests with something just a little different. Viognier, anyone?” says Margo Van Staaveren, head winemaker at Chateau St. Jean.red, white or both?It’s nice to offer both white and red wine, no matter the season. A good rule of thumb is a lighter white wine for the reception. “Think pinot gris, pinot blanc or fume blanc,” Van Staaveren says. It’s also nice to add a pinot noir because it can pair with lighter fare (chicken, fish and salads) but can also stand up to heavier foods.” Cabernet sauvignon or malbec is good for guests who enjoy…1 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017local lowdownthe bouqs co.THEBOUQS.COMCouples in need of last-minute blooms can now take advantage of same-day delivery from The Bouqs Co., an online floral service that brings fresh bouquets from artisan florists directly to your door. Each farm-to-table arrangement ships from an eco-friendly, sustainable farm in the local metro Detroit area, so brides in a pinch can get their hands on a fresh-from-thegarden bouquet in as little as two hours.les loupsLESLOUPSPICTURESANDSONGS.COMShe’s a photographer, he’s a DJ, and together, husband-and-wife team Kenan and Ro have moved from their home in Brooklyn, New York, in order to bring their wedding services to local metro Detroit-based to-be-weds.swiss cottage designsSWISSCOTTAGEDESIGNS.COMAfter also recently relocating from their office in Brooklyn, New York, the creative team behind this custom design studio now calls Detroit home. “It’s a nice change…2 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017brian & paulTHEIR STORY GROOM Brian Vargo (right), 33, an engineer GROOM Paul Kittinger, 33, an attorney HOW THEY MET Through mutual friends WEDDING STYLE A sophisticated color palette of navy, silver and sage kept their wedding simple and chic without detracting from Brian and Paul’s verdant venue. —RS Despite the abundance of snow outside, the conservatory’s lush interior lent a tropical quality to Brian and Paul’s midwinter wedding. “With it being the off-season, we had our pick of local wedding vendors, and the vast majority of our guests were available,” Paul says. BRIAN & PAUL’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY & RECEPTION SITE Planterra Conservatory, West Bloomfield PHOTOGRAPHY Marek Dziekonski/Dziekonski Photography CONSULTANT & FLOWERS Planterra Events ATTIRE Brian: Calvin Klein;
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017PAPER TRAILSdesert Getting hitched in the Southwest? Choose a symbol or motif that suits, like this playful cactus illustration. A mix of graphic and elegant typography elevates the suite, making it perfect for any formality, from hacienda to casual ranch party. Cacti wedding invitations, $234 for 100, Cass Loh, Minted.com garden Tying the knot in a field of flowers? Incorporate some flora into your wedding paper. (Bonus points for adding the blooms to your bouquet too.) A monochromatic palette lends subtle sophistication to this illustrated design while a portrait (aka the new monogram) gives it bespoke personalization. Matching inserts coordinate the whole suite. Frankie collection invitations and envelopes, $582 for 100, ColorMeCarla.com city Celebrating in the big city? Give guests a sneak peek of the party spot and generate excitement with…2 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017cake décor glossarybasket weave A piping technique that has interwoven vertical and horizontal lines. beading A border along the edge of tiers that resembles tiny pearls. cornelli An elaborate piping technique that yields a lacelike pattern. dragees Edible colored sugar balls used for decorative purposes. ganache A sweet, rich chocolate, denser than mousse but less dense than fudge, which can be used as icing or filling. gum paste This paste of sugar, cornstarch and gelatin is used to mold realisticlooking fruits and flowers to garnish a cake. latticework A crisscross piping with an open pattern. marzipan A paste made of ground almonds, sugar and egg whites used to mold edible flowers to decorate the cake. Marzipan can also be rolled in sheets, and used as icing. petal dust Adds sparkle or sheen…1 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017BEAUTY AWARDSEYELASH CURLER Relevée lash curler, $30,SurrattBeauty.com Squeeze, hold for a few seconds, then release to get a longlasting curl with zero tugging or pinching. BRUSHES Sonia Kashuk brushes, from $11,Target.com These sleek tools may be budget friendly, but trust us: The ultra-soft bristles hold their own against any brand out there. PALETTE Illume Sheer Color trio, $62,Hourglass Cosmetics.com We instantly fell for these three creams: a natural-looking bronzer, a peachy blush and a flattering highlighter. It’s an all-in-one, honeymoon-friendly compact. LIP GLOSS Color Elixir lip color, $9,Maybelline.com The color payoff, nonsticky feel and pretty shine is on par with highend formulas. MAKEUP Here are the very best ways to get lush lashes (that will stand up to happy tears), kissable lips and camera-ready skin. 1 WATERPROOF MASCARA Voluminous waterproof mascara,…7 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017bridesmaid reprievebouquets You’re expected to pay for your attendants’ personal flowers, which is something to consider when you’re thinking about how many bridesmaids you want. The bridesmaid bouquets (and the groomsmen boutonnieres) are factored into the floral budget along with the bride’s bouquet, centerpieces and other various décor. transportation While you don’t have to order a car service to pick up each and every one of your bridesmaids, you should make sure they have a ride to the wedding and from the ceremony to the reception, especially if your two venues are far apart or in an unfamiliar area (say, you’re having a destination wedding). You can hire a bus or limo to pick them up from a set location, or you can ask a few local guests to give the…1 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017savvy spendingAll done establishing your wedding budget? Good for you! Now you’ll spend the next few months allocating and tracking your funds. Here, four tips to make sure your spending is where it should be. get a wedding budget system Put your accounting skills to the test by deciding on a budgeting system to track all the money going in and out for your wedding day. The easiest way? The Knot Budget Calculator, which estimates how much you should spend on everything from music to mother-in-law gifts, and allows you to track all your payments and their due dates. Otherwise, you can put all your info in an old-fashioned spreadsheet. explore any hidden costs Knowing all of the costs for your wedding up front will guarantee that your budget can actually…3 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017raise your glassvariety is the spice of life Don’t feel like you have to stick with the most familiar types of wine. “You can have a large variety of wines to choose from, so you can wow your guests with something just a little different. Viognier, anyone?” says Margo Van Staaveren, head winemaker at Chateau St. Jean. red, white or both? It’s nice to offer both white and red wine, no matter the season. A good rule of thumb is a lighter white wine for the reception. “Think pinot gris, pinot blanc or fume blanc,” Van Staaveren says. It’s also nice to add a pinot noir because it can pair with lighter fare (chicken, fish and salads) but can also stand up to heavier foods.” Cabernet sauvignon or malbec is good for…1 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017the portrait listthe happy couple Stunning snaps of the two of you should be the priority. Consider doing a “first look,” where you and your fiancé come together before the ceremony to see each other for the first time in your wedding attire. You’ll be less nervous walking down the aisle and won’t miss co*cktail hour. the wedding party Your loyal friends and family who have stood by you in life— and in wedding planning— should also take center stage in your wedding album. You’ll want shots of you two with the entire bridal party as well as ones with each individual attendant. Some couples get creative with a mix of fun group shots (jumping, goofing around) and more traditional posed compositions. immediate family You may be eager to get to the…1 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017EDITOR’S LETTER“Dreaming, after all, is a form of planning.” —GLORIA STEINEMYou’re getting married! Congratulations. We love filling your head with hundreds of inspiring ideas—like destinationinspired stationery (p. 126)—as well as the practical advice you need to get your planning done. From the most effective beauty products for every wedding-related event (p. 163) to a flower primer you’ll want to tear out and take with you to your first meeting with a florist (p. 133), this issue was created to help with all your to-dos and make you feel confident every step of the way. And when it comes to fashion, we’ve got brides and grooms covered. In “Playing for Keeps” (p. 154), we used a carousel, cotton candy and other playful elements to show how edgy silhouettes, unconventional hues and unique…1 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 20176 untamed bouquets1 BEST BUDSHold something bold and trade classic white orchids for similar blooms in a brighter hue.2 BUNCHES OF BARLEYA cluster of fresh barley creates a modest, unexpected bouquet perfect for rustic affairs.3 FULL BLOOMCarry an asymmetrical arrangement of muted florals tied with a chic pink ribbon for a look that’s fresh and fragrant.4 FLOWER POWERLet loose with an overgrown cluster of moody, fall-inspired florals. (Bonus points if it coordinates with your flower crown.)5 FOODIE FLAIRFresh succulents and purple artichokes provide a pop of texture for a bunch that’s good enough to eat.6 WILD THINGThis lavish, foliage-filled bouquet definitely makes our hearts sing.k Find more chic inspiration at TheKnot.com/flowers…1 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 20179 charming toppers1 TOP THATPut it in writing with a custom topper featuring your favorite quote.2 PRETTY PAPERPersonalized paper dolls add flair to any cake.3 SEEING STARSStar Wars fanatics will obsess over these whimsical wood characters.4 BIRDS OF A FEATHERShow off your fun side with paper plumes.5 TOY STORYLEGO figurines make for a throwback detail your guests will appreciate.6 PLAYFUL PANDASDig into a sweet treat topped with pink peonies and cheeky pandas.7 SWEET TALKChannel your inner Ross and Rachel with this Friends-inspired topper.8 SUPERHERO CHICPay homage to your favorite fictional hero with a masked figure.9 BEAR WITH METhe only thing missing from this bear trio is Goldilocks herself.k Find more sweet inspiration at TheKnot.com/cakes…1 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017EDITOR’S LETTER“Dreaming, after all, is a form of planning.” —GLORIA STEINEM You’re getting married! Congratulations. We love filling your head with hundreds of inspiring ideas—like destinationinspired stationery (p. 126)—as well as the practical advice you need to get your planning done. From the most effective beauty products for every wedding-related event (p. 163) to a flower primer you’ll want to tear out and take with you to your first meeting with a florist (p. 133), this issue was created to help with all your to-dos and make you feel confident every step of the way. And when it comes to fashion, we’ve got brides and grooms covered. In “Playing for Keeps” (p. 154), we used a carousel, cotton candy and other playful elements to show how edgy silhouettes, unconventional hues and…1 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017ask carleyQ My wedding band and engagement ring are both platinum, but I’m thinking about wearing gold jewelry for my wedding. Will that work? A You can absolutely mix metals on your wedding day. Your engagement ring and wedding band might be your most meaningful (and asked about) jewelry, but that doesn’t mean they have to stand alone or dictate your entire look. For a little fashion inspiration, let the color and details of your gown point you toward which baubles will work best for your wedding. Gold usually pairs beautifully with creamier ivory fabrics, while silver typically complements brighter whites. RUDE REMARKS Q A friend of ours keeps making comments about our wedding budget, wondering aloud how we’re paying for it—in front of other people. How can we deal with…6 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 20176 untamed bouquets1 BEST BUDS Hold something bold and trade classic white orchids for similar blooms in a brighter hue. 2 BUNCHES OF BARLEY A cluster of fresh barley creates a modest, unexpected bouquet perfect for rustic affairs. 3 FULL BLOOM Carry an asymmetrical arrangement of muted florals tied with a chic pink ribbon for a look that’s fresh and fragrant. 4 FLOWER POWER Let loose with an overgrown cluster of moody, fall-inspired florals. (Bonus points if it coordinates with your flower crown.) 5 FOODIE FLAIR Fresh succulents and purple artichokes provide a pop of texture for a bunch that’s good enough to eat. 6 WILD THING This lavish, foliage-filled bouquet definitely makes our hearts sing. k Find more chic inspiration at TheKnot.com/flowers…1 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017petal talkSometimes trying to describe your favorite blooms to a florist is like trying to tell the car repair shop what sound your engine is making. Unless you’ve been around the block a few times, it’s hard to establish an extensive floral vocabulary. So we called on floral expert Jihyen Crowley of Gotham Florist for some help, and she shared the stems she’s asked about most often when it comes to wedding flowers. From anemones to garden roses and sweet pea, we’ve created a cheat sheet of perennial favorites, so you can brush up on the flower speak before meeting with your florist to choose your perfect petals.anemoneThis small bloom comes in a range of jewel-toned hues, but white may be the most popular color. It’s a shoo-in for formal black-and-white…5 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017cake décor glossarybasket weaveA piping technique that has interwoven vertical and horizontal lines.beadingA border along the edge of tiers that resembles tiny pearls.cornelliAn elaborate piping technique that yields a lacelike pattern.drageesEdible colored sugar balls used for decorative purposes.ganacheA sweet, rich chocolate, denser than mousse but less dense than fudge, which can be used as icing or filling.gum pasteThis paste of sugar, cornstarch and gelatin is used to mold realisticlooking fruits and flowers to garnish a cake.latticeworkA crisscross piping with an open pattern.marzipanA paste made of ground almonds, sugar and egg whites used to mold edible flowers to decorate the cake. Marzipan can also be rolled in sheets, and used as icing.petal dustAdds sparkle or sheen to a cake.pipingDecorative technique created using a pastry bag and various metal tips. Piping details include leaves,…1 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017BEAUTY AWARDSEYELASH CURLERRelevée lash curler, $30,SurrattBeauty.comSqueeze, hold for a few seconds, then release to get a longlasting curl with zero tugging or pinching.BRUSHESSonia Kashuk brushes, from $11,Target.comThese sleek tools may be budget friendly, but trust us: The ultra-soft bristles hold their own against any brand out there.PALETTEIllume Sheer Color trio, $62,Hourglass Cosmetics.comWe instantly fell for these three creams: a natural-looking bronzer, a peachy blush and a flattering highlighter. It’s an all-in-one, honeymoon-friendly compact.LIP GLOSSColor Elixir lip color, $9,Maybelline.comThe color payoff, nonsticky feel and pretty shine is on par with highend formulas.MAKEUPHere are the very best ways to get lush lashes (that will stand up to happy tears), kissable lips and camera-ready skin.1 WATERPROOF MASCARAVoluminous waterproof mascara, $11,LorealParisUSA.comDon’t worry about tearing up during your ceremony: This mascara delivers tons of drama without…7 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017styling your smallest attendantsfor flower girlsTHE SKINNY The parents traditionally pay for the flower girl’s attire, so unless you plan on making a gift of it, be up front about this cost when you ask to include her in your wedding day.THE FORMALITY There are two schools of thought when it comes to dressing the flower girl: She should match the bride, or she should match the bridesmaids. Another option is to put her in a white dress with an accent or sash that matches the bridesmaid dress color.THE STYLE No matter what your wedding style, flower girl dresses nearly always have a fuller skirt and are tea or floor length.THE ACCESSORIES Keep it simple. A basket of petals or pomander is probably plenty for her to handle. Consider her age and maturity…2 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017advice from a chefwhat are the biggest mistakes you see couples making with their menus? Not trusting the chef and trying to create a menu to please guests without first considering your own personal preferences. Focus on yourselves and your dining experience, then let your caterer worry about pleasing everyone else. how can couples personalize their menu? Share food memories and family stories from holidays and vacations to allow the chef to create personalized options based on your own experiences. I also really enjoy when couples give us a family recipe so we can learn and share together. It means a lot that they trust me with executing a dish that’s really special to them. what’s the one catering trend you wish would go away? Hot buffets—I hate seeing precooked food slowly deteriorating…2 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017advice from a bespoke clothierlet’s start with the basics—what is bespoke? Essentially, a bespoke suit is created for a client using an original pattern that’s unique to their measurements. The suit is designed just for them and no one else, therefore it fits exactly as it should. so how does a bespoke suit compare with one that’s rented? Off-the-rack suits are made for a nonexistent person, which can lead to problems for most grooms. The lapels can bow out or the shoulders can be too big, which makes it look like you’re wearing your dad’s suit. Not only is a bespoke suit going to fit better than a rental, many grooms prefer bespoke since they can wear it again. but aren’t custom suits pricier than the rented variety? Many different variables come into play…3 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017vineyard vowsDelicious wine, lush green leaves and a rustic setting— wineries make for unforgettable wedding venues, so what’s not to love when planning a vineyard wedding? There’s more to the process that you have to plan for: Grapes aren’t always on the vines for pretty photos, and pastoral vineyards don’t always show up on even the most high-tech GPS devices. That’s why we consulted Madeleine McQuarrie, event planner at Chateau St. Jean winery in Sonoma, California, who gave us the lowdown on all of the logistical ins and outs you might not have considered. Cheers!check the local sound-ordinance rulesUsually, rural counties (in which most wineries reside) are strict with their sound ordinances—in some cases, music must be turned off by 10 or 11 p.m. Just be sure to doublecheck any rules…6 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017snap happyUnlike the work that your other wedding vendors produce (music, flower arrangements, the cake), photos aren’t things you can hear, smell, taste or even see at first—you don’t really know what you’re getting until after the fact. That makes it extra-important to train a critical eye on any pro you’re considering, taking into account their experience, artistic style, even their personality. Knowing what to look out for, and which questions to ask, will ensure the memories of your wedding are just as beautiful as the day itself. >>settle on a styleFirst on your to-do list: deciding what style of photography you want. All photographers specialize in a format and style, and knowing up front whether you prefer film to digital, or candid shots to posed ones will go a long…10 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017the caribbean decoded1 IF YOU’RE LOOKING FOR…total seclusionGUANA ISLANDWHY GO This under-the-radar private island resort in the British Virgin Islands maxes out at around 35 guests, granting couples an almost deserted feel. Find luxury style “roughing it”: Be dropped on a remote beach, with a boat on call, where you can have your fresh catch eagerly prepped by a skilled chef.WHERE TO STAY Go crazy over the view of electric-blue water from your cottage or villa. Start exploring and you’ll see that the grounds, which include a Garden of Eden for yoga and outdoor movie screenings, are just as impressive. On the departure dock, guests are even photographed for the resort’s memento binder (all-inclusive rates from $695 per night, Guana.com).HOW TO SPEND YOUR ISLAND TIME Sign up for the hotel’s Castaway Picnic…5 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017marriage licenses and wedding announcementsmake it legalMichigan Marriage License RequirementsGUIDELINES FOR OBTAINING A MARRIAGE LICENSE In Michigan, the legal age for marriage is 18 years old. Parental consent is required for couples who are 16 or 17 and wish to marry. Either the groom or the bride must apply for a marriage license in the county in which he or she resides. The applicant must present a valid photo ID, such as a driver’s license, and some counties may require a birth certificate. No divorce decree or death certificate is required if either the bride or groom has been previously married; however, he or she must know the dates and locations of the divorce or death, and the certificate may be requested in some counties. No blood tests are required. There is a three-day…2 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017stephanie & chuckTHEIR STORY BRIDE Stephanie Jablonski, 30, a kindergarten teacher GROOM Chuck Eiler, 40, an art director HOW THEY MET While vacationing in Clearwater Beach, Florida WEDDING STYLE As a nod to their ceremony’s vineyard venue, Stephanie and Chuck decked out the rustic setting using wine-inspired colors of champagne, blush and garnet. —RS “We traveled to Traverse City for our first weekend getaway and fell in love with Black Star Farms and each other,” Stephanie says of returning to the vineyard to say “I do.” Postceremony, the newlyweds hosted a champagne mixer for guests at the back of the barn. STEPHANIE & CHUCK’S WEDDING INGREDIENTS CEREMONY SITE Black Star Farms, Suttons Bay RECEPTION SITE Visions at CenterPointe, Traverse City PHOTOGRAPHY Tamara Gruner Photography CONSULTANTS Stephanie Wiitala/Black Star Farms; Joanne Sika/Visions at…1 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017petal talkSometimes trying to describe your favorite blooms to a florist is like trying to tell the car repair shop what sound your engine is making. Unless you’ve been around the block a few times, it’s hard to establish an extensive floral vocabulary. So we called on floral expert Jihyen Crowley of Gotham Florist for some help, and she shared the stems she’s asked about most often when it comes to wedding flowers. From anemones to garden roses and sweet pea, we’ve created a cheat sheet of perennial favorites, so you can brush up on the flower speak before meeting with your florist to choose your perfect petals. anemone This small bloom comes in a range of jewel-toned hues, but white may be the most popular color. It’s a shoo-in for…5 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017too pretty to eat (well, almost)Couples take note: Edible favors never (okay, rarely) get left behind. And while favors aren’t required, they’re a nice way to show your guests you appreciate their support and attendance. And if they traveled to celebrate, an edible token means instant gratification— no packing something extra in the suitcase for the trek home. Just like your invitation sets the stage for your wedding, your favors leave a lasting impression, so pick something fun that speaks to your wedding theme, the locale or your personality as a couple. Are you two always on the hunt for the best macarons? Or maybe you’re popcorn gurus or cookie connoisseurs? Treat your guests to an indulgence you both love. Whether you’re after something sweet, foodie-approved or ridiculously Instagrammable, we’ve got you covered with nine…3 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017maid for each otherChances are, you have a couple of old bridesmaid dresses collecting dust in your own closet. And now that it’s your turn to pick the dress, you might be feeling the pressure to find a style that’s both budget friendly and figure flattering for all of your attendants. Think that’s impossible? We promise—it’s actually totally doable. Read up on how to find dresses that won’t cost a fortune but will look gorgeous on all your girls. let them choose the dress Just hear us out on this one: Letting each bridesmaid choose her own dress proves you want everyone to look their best and shows you trust in their fashion sense. The trick to pulling off the mismatched trend is setting color and fabric guidelines so your whole party still…4 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017the well-groomed groomIt’s no secret that many brides follow strict wedding prep before the wedding day—but what about the guys? These days, groom style is about so much more than just a rented tux. From manicuring his facial hair to choosing just the right accessories to complement his perfectly tailored new threads, here are four easy ways to pamper your groom and give his wedding day style a little extra polish. do some manscaping If he’s considering growing or changing his facial hair before your wedding, make sure he has at least a three-month head start. “It’s better to live with the style for a bit prior to the wedding to make sure this is the look you want to have in your photos,” says Troy Harris, a master barber at The…6 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017eat, drink and be marriedNo matter how you’re celebrating, an amazing meal is central to your wedding reception. But before you choose the menu, you need to know which meal you’re serving. Your options are nearly endless—from a formal, seated dinner or a festive brunch buffet to nothing but a fivetier fondant couture cake. brunch Brunch can be served buffet style or as a seated meal (or you could even do a combo). The other alternative is a co*cktail brunch, where guests enjoy passed hors d’oeuvres (like scrambled-egg tartlets and mini French toast sticks) and co*cktails (such as mimosas, Bellinis and Bloody Marys) as they mingle among a mix of lounge furniture and tables. THE PROS • Your liquor costs will be lower than they’d be for an evening affair, and often, site-rental fees…5 min
The Knot Michigan Weddings Magazine|Spring - Summer 2017snap happyUnlike the work that your other wedding vendors produce (music, flower arrangements, the cake), photos aren’t things you can hear, smell, taste or even see at first—you don’t really know what you’re getting until after the fact. That makes it extra-important to train a critical eye on any pro you’re considering, taking into account their experience, artistic style, even their personality. Knowing what to look out for, and which questions to ask, will ensure the memories of your wedding are just as beautiful as the day itself. >> settle on a style First on your to-do list: deciding what style of photography you want. All photographers specialize in a format and style, and knowing up front whether you prefer film to digital, or candid shots to posed ones will go…10 min
